Brother RUG I am trying.
Coming from a Fire and Fury, Warmaster, Spearhead, Commander series, Panzer War degree of abstraction, having never won a single game of 40k despite having 4500pt of Imperial Fists fully painted I now play Warpath with, but having had those same friends over to play FWC and kicked their ass consistently I know I do what I do - well.
In Victoria, especially in Melbourne, there's a good two dozen Epic players. All good mates. I like having opponents I call on, we go to each others' houses, we met at clubs for games etc...
What I'd like is to figure out how I can give my opponent a good game.
I don't even want to WIN - it's no biggie to me - but I can read in their faces when they know I know they know they beat me before the game started. I don't know what I'm doing. When my friends and I play Warmaster, they know I know what I'm doing. When we play WWII, I know what I'm doing. It's a GOOD game, nevermind who wins. I don't care who wins! And for the most part, neither do they.
Practice and advice, which I turned to Taccoms for, and being humble in not knowing the rules all that well....that builds in my experience an understanding of the rules.
Kings of War, I'll take on anybody with that ruleset - why? Because I get it! I know it. I wrote the Battlescribe files for it for 3rd ed (much love to the rest of the team BTW).
I play wargames, my friends know what I'm like when I know the game and rules - unforgiving and brutal. I win the games of the rules I know. In E:A, I'm learning. That's all. Happy to bow my head low and say "how do I make Guard list? What to you think of this? Is this is a silly combo? Why?"
I'll get there when I know what I'm doing - dice gods permitting!